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The TIMES OF refreshing

Chosen One Outreach Ministries    Publisher Shearon Roach      www.timeofrefreshing.com       Issue No. 4    Date 02/07/03

What About The Children?  

Scripture Reading: Mar 10:13-16

And they brought young children to him, that he should touch them: and his disciples rebuked those that brought them.  But when Jesus saw it, HE WAS MUCH DISPLEASED, and said unto them, Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God. Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein.   And he took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them, and blessed them.

 

 Jesus loves the little children

I have been going back and forth with the Lord on this one, because I have such a passion for children I didn’t want my feelings to override what He wanted to say.  So I am prayerfully sending this so you now, in hope that it will cause you to rethink your commitment to the Lord and your children.

Jesus’ love for the children was expressed over and over again, yet we take it so lightly.  JESUS IS MUCH DISPLEASED at how we are treating our children. We spend more time playing games to win the affection of men, than we do getting to know our children.  We change our hair, make-up, clothes, nails, sometime even the way we think to get a man.  Women are having babies thinking that by having the child the man will have to stay with them.  When in fact by man’s law all the man is required to do is pay child support until the child turns 18.  I said man’s law, not God’s law. How this man treats his child will be judge by God’s law, not man. 

Women look at what is happening to our children by us spending more time trying to get a man and less time getting closer to Jesus:

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STORIES FROM OUR HEADLINES

POLICE: 3-YEAR-OLD DIES OF PUNCHES TO STOMACH

Joseph's boyfriend, James T. Robinson, 24, was arrested in Maryland last week on an unrelated probation-violation charge. He will face charges of first-degree murder and aggravated child abuse in Kevin Fulmore Jr.'s death, authorities said. Robinson, who has two younger children with Joseph, remained jailed in Maryland on Friday, awaiting extradition.

EAST RUTHERFORD, N.J. — New York Giants defensive end Jeremiah Parker was charged Tuesday with one count of child endangerment and one count of neglect in connection with the death of his live-in girlfriend's 4-year-old son.

Think how different the headlines would have been had these women allowed Jesus to come into their lives. Our next story is a little different:

WHAT WAS TH IS MOTHER THINKING, OR WAS SHE?

DETROIT (AP) — A man was charged Sunday with killing a 3-month-old infant handed over to him at a bus stop by the infant's mother.  Police said Shaniqua Betty gave her infant son Isaiah to Harold Reed, a stranger, at a bus stop on Aug. 3 and asked Reed to look after the baby while she got her purse from her boyfriend's home. She returned to find Reed and the child gone.

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When I read stories like this my spirit cries out for the children.  Women in our quest to find the man of our dreams, we lose site of what is best for our children.  We bring men into our homes without really knowing them.  And before we know it they are spending the night and we have our children calling them “uncle”.  How do we explain it when they see Mom and “Uncle” being intimate?  Without thinking we have exposed them to fornication, lying, and incest.  I say incest because as far as the children know Mom and their “Uncle” are sleeping together.   Is this really the way we want to train our children? Is this the way the Word tells us to train them?  JESUS IS MUCH DISPLEASED with this.

  Pro 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Train the children, not in the way they would go, or in the way they want to go, but in the way God’s word say they should go. God word doesn’t tell us to train them in lying, fornication, or incest.  But yet, this is what they are exposed to at an early age. And before you know it they are discussing what Mom and Uncle are doing with their friends in the streets. Then we get upset with them because it should have stayed in the house, you neglected to make that part clear. Think about this the next time you and “uncle so and so” lie down together, JESUS IS MUCH DISPLEASED.

As soon as possible every child should be led to the knowledge of the Saviour.  The enemy is not wasting anytime teaching his children about his kingdom.  And whether you realize it or not, you are helping the enemy destroy your children by not teaching them about God’s love for them.

Scripture Reading:

Deut 6:5-7  And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. 
And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

AND THOU SHALT TEACH THEM DILIGENTLY UNTO THY CHILDREN,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house,
and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

 The Lord has commanded that we love Him with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all our might.  He also said that we should diligently to the children.  With care, with attention, making sure they understand what it means to love the Lord. He said to talk about Him when you sit in your house, when you walk outside, when you lie down and when you get up.   If we would follow His instructions (which are so clear), the lives of our children would be safer.   The children are crying out for our love, and we put them on the back burner while we satisfy our needs.  

JESUS IS MUCH DISPLEASED.

We have a responsibility to them, they didn’t ask to come into this world we made that decision.  God gave His only Son for us, and He laid down His life for us.  So why can’t we give up satisfying ourselves to see about our children.  Why can’t we put our kids ahead of our needs? Why can’t we make sure they have what they need to succeed in this world before we get wrapped up into trapping a man? Why can’t we give them the chance that some of us didn’t have? Don’t they deserve better? Then stop, pray and ask the Lord to help you bring them up according to His Word, and not

Your needs. THIS WOULD PLEASE JESUS.

When was the last time you sat down with your children to find out what they wanted, to listen to what kind of day they had?

 

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Shared Readings

This story is from "God's Little Devotional Bible for Women". It reads as follows:

PRAYING FINGERS

Many children learn to count on their fingers, but a nurse once taught a child to pray "on his fingers." This was her method:

Your thumb is the digit nearest to your heart, so pray first for those who are closest to you. Your own needs, of course, should be included as well as those of your beloved family and friends.

The second finger is the one used for pointing. Pray for those who point you toward the truth, whether at church or school. Pray for your teachers, mentors, pastors, and those who inspire your faith.

The third finger is the tallest. Let it stand for the leaders in every sphere of life. Pray for those in authority -- both within the body of Christ and those who hold office in various areas of government.

The fourth finger is the weakest, as every pianist knows. Let it stand for those who are in trouble and pain -- the sick, injured, abused, wounded, or hurt.

The little finger is the smallest. Let it stand for those who often go unnoticed, including those who suffer abuse and deprivation. What a great tool to use in teaching children how to pray for themselves and others. (What a simple and wonderful reminder to use as we pray ourselves).

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Shared Readings From the Hearts of Children


A small child and his father were looking heaven- ward one bright starlit night. After quietly and reverently observing the stars for a long time, the small boy, holding his father's hand, said, "If the bottom side of heaven is this pretty, then how beautiful the other side must be!"


Why stay with your arms crossed when the most powerful Man of the universe died with his arms open? 
Priscila, 14 years old


Love is the blanket God wraps around you.
Allyson (13 years old)


Pray - don't think about it, because when you think about it, you think what you want to happen and not what is really happening. - Liz (17 years old), Minnesota


If you find a man with a Bible that is falling apart....chances are the man IS NOT falling apart.
Bryan Ohio


Hello, my name is Kara, and I am 14. I am from Morganton, NC and I would like to submit a quote. I made this quote up recently and I live by it everyday. I hope my quote inspires others to look to God when they have nothing else. The quote is:

We can't say we've lost everything .... God is still there.


If I could chose my own Heaven, it would be to pick sunflowers for God for all eternity. 
Becky, 13, Myrtle Beach


Here are some quotes submitted by 14 year old McKenzie Clark:

  1. God is my number one priority in my life
  2. He is my comforter, my shelter, and my candle!
  3. He lights my way through life carrying me through the dark times and the bad times!
  4. He lifts me up when I am down , brings me back to reality when I escape it.
  5. I love him with ALL my heart ! That is why I gave it to him !



When there is nothing left but God, that is when you realize that God is all you need. Submitted by Sarah, 13 years old, Austin, Texas


With God, there are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason, so stop worrying about what tomorrow brings, and put your trust in Him.  Submitted by Mollie, Age 11, West Virginia


 

A CHILD’S PRAYER

I always talk to You when I pray and have You watch me when I play.

I want You to use me in a special way, And make my life shine everyday.

Thank you Jesus for listening to me, Bless Mommy and Daddy and the family.

And there's one more thing I'd like to say,
I love you Jesus more each day!

AMEN

 

Have you taught your child to pray?

 

 

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 Father,

Please bless those who read this newsletter with an understanding that will bring them into a closer relationship with You and their children.  Father, let not their hearts become harden against Your Word, but saturated in joy of the Holy Spirit. Father, I pray that you will block any hindrances that the enemy may try to bring against them as they draw closer to You.

Father, I pray that you will create a clean heart, and renew a right spirit within them.  I pray that You will cause their souls to hunger and thirst after you as if they were in a dry and thirsty land.  And as they hunger and thirst after You, that You will fill them to overflowing.

Father, I pray that they will not get weary in well doing, but that You will keep them strong in Your Word. Father, I thank You that you always hear me, and I thank You for fulfilling the needs of this prayer.  In Jesus Name I pray, Amen.  

 

  

 

 

 

 

  

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